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[–] Drinvictus@discuss.tchncs.de 53 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Bots, scammers and OF girls

[–] Geek_King@lemmy.world 39 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd like to add to your list:

Matches who don't talk, and sadness

[–] SuperIce@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You guys are getting matches?

[–] Grumpy@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago

I think many math from people generally suggest guys get about 0 to 1 matches per day on median. Though, average is much much higher because top very small percentage of men get a crap ton, even more so than top girls. Whereas girls usually get in teens per day for median.

[–] Geek_King@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not so much, the rare ones I get generally don't respond when I message them.

[–] Grumpy@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's because they have too many people messaging them. They can't keep up. They end up being selective once again among the people who did match and invest their time into few while ghosting the rest.

[–] Geek_King@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I know, still sucks. The current numbers I heard for tinder was 25% women, 75% men. The amount of likes a day the average woman gets must be exhausting. Online dating is just awful now.