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[โ€“] Traister101@lemmy.today 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I find it unfair to blame my peers for things largly out of their control. If you are born into an abusive family you'll only ever know if you happen to luck into the information that such behavior is unhealthy. Is it some of their faults? Certainly, I know people who are willfully stupid and refuse to learn but even knowing these people I feel pretty uncomfortable blaming them for it. I've talked to them, I've educated them on stuff they were willfully ignorant of and do you know what it generally boils down to? School has taught them that learning things is hard and a waste of their time. They'd rather waste hours trying to get an LLM to generate a script for them than sit down and figure out how to do it despite knowing I'd happily help them.

School has managed to taint "learning" in the minds of many of my peers to such an extent that it should be avoided at any cost. School has failed us, is still failing the current generation and nothing is going to be done about it because it's working as it's meant to. This is the intended outcome. Like genuinely the scale of the fuckup is to the extent that enjoying reading is not just rare but seen as weird. We've managed to take one of the best ways to educate yourself and instill dread in our children when it's brought up. How do we expect people who've been taught to hate reading to just magically turn around and unfuck themselves? What'd they see a really motivating Tik Tok or some shit? I despise that platform but like seriously you older people just don't it man. Been complaing since middle school and now people wanna turn around and blame us as if it's some personal failing it's fucked up dude. Our education sucks, has sucked and will continue to suck even worse until we stop pretending like this is some kind of personal failing.

[โ€“] Zorque@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Life is unfair, but unless we acknowledge our own failings it will never get better.

You want to walk through life blaming everyone else for everything that goes wrong in your life and take no responsibility for your own actions? Feel free. But just know nothing will ever get better for you.

I even acknowledge, multiple times, that it is not solely the fault of the person. But that does not mean they have no will of their own, no ability to change their circumstances. Sometimes that freedom is not enough, but unless you do something to take charge of your own life, again, nothing will ever change.