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This is a 2-in-1 question, I suppose. I type the way I do. I’ve always typed this way, but I’ve noticed when interacting with people (not on here) that people always think I’m far older than 19. They think I’m in my forties or fifties.

Also, I tend to type using full stops, which people may think are rude. When I’m typing a full sentence, though, I end it with a period. If I say, “He’s being an asshole,” (with a period), I mean that as a fact, not out of anger. It just happens to be ended with a period since it’s a sentence.

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[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 23 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (3 children)

Because old people like me view written correspondence as less disposable. When jotting down personal notes, we don't worry about spelling or punctuation, but writing a letter? You double check that shit so there isn't documentation of how illiterate you are!

Youth grew up with texting. It's designed to be fast and efficient. Sup? OMG 👍 They just need to get the point across, it's not a grammar competition.

Neither is right or wrong, it's just a generational difference.

[–] masterspace@lemmy.ca 2 points 34 minutes ago (1 children)

Young people focus on the tone they're conveying.

Old people focus on following the rules that were beaten into them as children for no reason.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 1 points 23 minutes ago

That's a good way of framing it.

[–] card797@champserver.net 3 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

Oh, no. It's wrong. Punctuation makes everything clear!

[–] lazylion_ca@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 hours ago

It made everything clear back when everything was hand written or done on a type writer. This mattered as paper wasn't infinite.

Much of modern communication is done in bubbles on screens, so the punctuation doesnt matter as much as it used to.

That said, run-on sentences and word salad are quite common which makes for some entertaining yet stroke inducing screenshots.

The so-called "rules" of language arent actually rules. They are observations. Language use has greatly evolved over time, and schools teach the rules as they know them, forgetting that even a hundred years ago, it was different.

[–] lud@lemm.ee 3 points 5 hours ago

There is absolutely no difference between "no" and "No.". Both can be understood perfectly well.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world -2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Or .. If you can't understand it unless they spell it out for you, there may be a deficiency on your end.

[–] card797@champserver.net 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 0 points 5 hours ago

I'm glad you thought it was funny.

Evidently it hit a little too close to home for others.

[–] Skua@kbin.earth 10 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

it's not a grammar competition.

While I agree that there's less of an expectation of grammar, informal text communication has definitely developed grammar of its own. OP mentioned full stops, for example — ending a message with one is a tone marker now

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Full stops are slowly becoming a separator instead of a terminator in colloquial chats, which I find interesting, since some scripts use an equivalent character like that

[–] Skua@kbin.earth 1 points 5 hours ago

Ooh, that's interesting. I'm not really sure what to look for here, could you give me an example of a language/script that has that?