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[–] MothmanDelorian@lemmy.world 14 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

This means men will see many fewer women on the platform in many cases.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.world 43 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (2 children)

it means men would not spend hours on the app, which means nobody would ever do this

[–] Ulrich@feddit.org 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Who wants men spending hours on the app and why? Most of these are subscription-based, not ad-supported.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

i dunno i thought that was the goal of all apps. it's free money basically

[–] Ulrich@feddit.org 4 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

No, it's the goal of apps that want to serve as many advertisements as humanly possible. Most dating apps don't have any way to monetize your attention.

[–] MothmanDelorian@lemmy.world 5 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Exactly, Im 50 and Im not rich or particularly good looking. If I was straight I might only see 5 or 6 women on the app that would match with me to begin with and if those didn't become anything I'd be done with that app. It can't work

[–] Ulrich@feddit.org 9 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Would you rather see 5 or 6 women that all expressed interest in you or a thousand women who have never and probably will never even see you? Open the app, swipe 5 or 6 times, move on with your life.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

As someone who has spent a stupid amount of time browsing Tinder for shits & giggles, I'm not sure I wouldn't want that. But then again I'm gay and things work way differently for us. If I swipe right, it's very likely we match and then have a boring convo that goes nowhere. Maybe I suck at it but I never have any luck despite everything.

[–] Ulrich@feddit.org 1 points 1 hour ago

You're gonna have a boring convo on a chat app with a random stranger. You're both interested in each other, just ask to meet up. Do something interesting together and the conversation will flow naturally.

[–] orgrinrt@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

This is very well put.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago

i am the most attractive sexy man in my entire giant city of 23 million people but i still have to swipe 50 girls to get 1 match and i might not even be that interested in her. better to meet girls in real life and follow them around on the tube and insert myself into their personal space 🚀

[–] Ulrich@feddit.org 1 points 11 hours ago

Yes, that's the idea. They wouldn't see anyone who hasn't already liked them.