They have both trended towards eachother to the point that apart from UI/UX, there’s honestly very little difference for 90% of things.

This is very true. iOS and Android used to be on completely opposite ends of the spectrum - iOS looked pretty out of the box but you needed to jailbreak to do something as simple as skin your keyboard; Android used to be super confusing but you could customize literally everything. Now they've both shifted somewhat towards each other.

Fanboyism (for either side) is bad for consumers in general. I'll use whatever fits my needs. I'm still on Android because sideloading is a massive draw for me, but it doesn't mean i sneer at iOS users.