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How do you be aware of major issues in the world and locally without becoming deeply depressed and cynical? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 23 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) by ComradeMiao@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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As someone in the US it’s so easy to see so many depressing issues from the ravages of capitalism, to war, imperialism, and genocide. How can one care about these issues and hope for change without allowing themselves to be affected mentally?

I’ve been considering this for the past week, connecting it with Buddhist compassion towards the world and a need for mindfulness. But it’s so easy to fall into emotionlessness.

I’ve also thought through the world has always had issues and though some are getting much worse some are getting better.

I have gone to counseling before but they just make it an individual problem when it’s the world.

Edit: doesn’t have to be US centric. Just I’m writing from that pov

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[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I have a personal petty war against the corposlop extortions in my life, I know it won't stop them or bring about a revolution or smth, but at least I can be an example to others that they need us more than we need them and it makes me at least feel that I have some control, some things that I can take back from being corrupted.

So far I have:

Stopped buying all fast fashion and buy far fewer clothes in general mostly off Etsy back in the day or indie online retailers
Cancelled my subscription to Netflix for me and my gf, replaced with Jellyfin
Cancelled Amazon Prime and stopped shopping at Amazon altogether alongside getting my friends off Wish, Temu etc.
Stopped using all food delivery and ride-sharing apps
Stopped eating fast food and at big chains
Moved most my grocery shopping to Co-Op
Eliminated all corporate and/or algorithm driven social media from my life (Insta, FB, Reddit, Discord, LinkedIn, YT (only via self-hosted proxies/ublock/sponsorblock/dearrow).
Stopped using corpo LLMs, using only my homebrew refine of Mistral 7B sometimes
Stopped using Chrome, cancelled Google one and my sub to GDrive
Almost stopped using Windows
Replaced almost all daily use software with FOSS alternatives
Almost entirely stopped buying any tech that isn't used and/or refurbished and/or old/junkyard material

Next steps are:

Replace ISP router with junkyard rescue gear with FOSS software, mite b getting some from work soon
Cancel Spotify as my last remaining subscription service (I have personal playlists I need to backup)
Get rid of Google accs and host my own email
Ascend past smartphones (already use only old flagships for less than a hundred bucks)

I feel like it's still all just in the consumption framework and highly individualistic, but it helps me cope, it's an outlet for anger that has bettered me as a person in every way imaginable.

[–] reallyzen@lemmy.ml 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

This is an excellent list, that proves that as an individual there are things you can do to feel right about the world surrendering us. I'll add, tho I'm pretty sure you are probably doing it already, that I don't buy anything from Nestlé, Coca Cola, etc like you're avoiding amazon. Not buying from megacorps goes hand-to-hand to not using meta/google/apple/microsoft services I think.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 hours ago

Yeee. I try my best to avoid both Nestle and Coca-Cola (drink of the death squads is too good a song to not at least try to) but it's tough with how sneaky those bastards can get with all the brands they own.

Idk if I feel right exactly, I just feel more powerful, I can simply say "No" to being a victim of - or a participant in - what to me is an abuse of people, of lives on a scale beyond comprehension by the corporations. I can deny them the power they want so desperately to hold.

My only wish is more people were motivated to do this, whatever their expertise and possibilities and abilities, we could share so much if we shared the same goals.