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How many people do you need before you hit “small orgy”? Like 3 people is obviously a threesome, is 4 people a small orgy?
And how many before it is no longer a small orgy?
Well, the way I've seen it explained is that anything over 4 can be an orgy, as long as nobody is just watching. Otherwise, it's just group sex.
However, I've also seen the argument made that 4 can be an orgy so long as everyone is involved with at least two other people at once.
Me, I say it's a small orgy when it's over 4 but under a dozen.
In this case, it was nine people. 4 dongs present. But they were all putting things into each other (if you count tongues, and I do) and mostly with more than one person, so it wasn't just group sex with enough people to count as an orgy.
And yes, I did watch for a while. It was. . . interesting. It was too weird to be arousing, what with the suddenness of it, and the location, and the utter lack of aggressive exhibitionism. Like, obviously they wanted to be seen, it was public. But it wasn't like they were paying attention to being seen, they weren't just watching people watch them. It was almost performance art tbh, just performance art with jizz.