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I have ADHD. Anyone telling you it is a super power is either lying or has a drastically different experience with it than I do.
Not a superpower. Thinking all moments of every single day, although exhausting, does make one significantly more experienced with thinking and how their mind works than those who can choose not to think most of the time though if untempered these thoughts are typically nonsense. It's an advantage in many situations to be able to think at light speed while everyone else is panicking, but the burnout that comes from not being able to ever turn it off is pretty nasty. It's different with different advantages and disadvantages. I personally wouldn't change my mind to be different, but I wouldn't recommend a mind like mine to someone who wouldn't be able to handle it since I'm barely able to handle it myself with decades of experience.
That's good for you, but don't act like that's the typical ADHD experience. There is literally no benefit to this for me. It's a disability. There are so so so many neurotypical people who also meet the description of the advantages you're talking about. It's nothing unique to ADHD. And, that's great for you, I'm glad you're able to find what you believe to be a silver lining, but don't say it's some sort of universal advantage of ADHD. My wife has ADHD and definitely doesn't have that aspect.
Its a super power in battle/reaction situations. In all aplicable areas of modern age, its a nightmare.
Nope. Absolutely not. That is your experience with it. Not mine. It's a disability. Please don't describe my experience with a disability as a super power.
I say because I have ADHD too. My reaction are more thoughtful and cold in stress situations like theft assaults or accidents are way better that neurotypical ones (I'm from latinamerica so they are very common). But I have so much problems to do normal things daily and they are ruining my life.
Is that directly related to ADHD or just an independent character trait?
I don't think it is. There are plenty of neurotypical people who have those qualities and plenty of people with ADHD who don't. My wife has ADHD and wouldn't fit that definition.
I have ADHD too and in those few high stress / life or death situations I've been in, I suddenly felt super calm and focused while some other people were just screaming. I read somewhere that people with ADHD are overrepresented in first responders and similar jobs and I can believe that.
That being said, I very much agree with JackByDev. Yeah, ADHD is a disability. It has caused much pain and suffering for me and I wish I could get rid of it.
Thanks for the insight, thatβs pretty interesting. But yes, it does not sound like it would be worth the trade-offs, if one got the chance to choose