More importantly, it gatekeeps gender affirming care to people that are fucked up enough by it. Some of us are significantly hindered by it, but many others can still work and function in life without transitioning.

My dysphoria is bad enough to make life as a man impossible, but I didn't even know that was the case until I came out. I also don't think it's fair to gatekeep care from people who can function without transitioning. Being a good worker bee shouldn't be the goal; that bar is too low.

[–] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

They were able to diagnose me with gender dysphoria but they wouldn't give me treatment officially unless I pretended to be a woman for them, they probably really thought it would be funny for someone who looks just like a man to wear a dress and lipstick with face stubble. Right? So funny? Fuckin chasers. (Yes I'm calling my old doctor and my therapist chasers because they wanted me to dress like a woman without looking like one, they were so pissed when they saw me again post-DIY HRT)

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

They fucked around (denied care that they literally defined as necessary) and found out 🙄

[–] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

When I questioned them about the requirement they said they needed to make sure I wouldn't regret it. Asshole literally laughed when I looked him in the eye! He was lying to me about that reason, the real reason was perfectly clear to me.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Fucking chaser