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I am a 23 year old female with a IQ of 76. Ask me anything

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[–] voracitude@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

I didn't mean to upset you. I'm autistic and much older than you, so yeah, I do actually know what it's like to have to come to terms with my own limitations. I know exactly what you mean about being angry and ashamed of those limitations. Every time I fail to extract myself from a situation and have a meltdown, screaming and hitting myself in the head - sometimes in public - and having to face that, what everyone saw, once I'm calm and quiet and lucid again. Every time I look gullible because I fall for some obvious bullshit (satire or parody news, for example). Knowing I could be more if I could just understand people, and get them to understand me.

That's what I mean when I say IQ tests don't really mean anything, they measure just a few aspects of intelligence and it doesn't tell you anything meaningful about a whole person. My partner has been told by people she thought were friends that she's dumb and she doesn't bring anything to the table, and it destroyed her self esteem, but it was absolutely not true or fair and I've spent years undoing that damage. I was hoping you don't suffer that too, that's all.

I didn't once say anything about trying your hardest, but if you really want to expand that last half of my last question into a whole point, then it should be this: you are perfectly capable of living a good life, being happy, and making others happy, regardless of a score on a test.