"Toxic left wing" pundits haven't gotten their followers to storm the capital building or fly a plane into an irs biulding. If you're really mad someone has opinions on video games, install a 3rd party channel blocker for firefox. The things the toxic femists/pick-me types are up to pale in comparison to the manosphere are up to.

[–] TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml -3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I cannot agree to just treating and branding men's spaces like that. Manosphere may be doing a bad job, but its not all redpillers and Tateists. I hate this attack on and absolutist "shit on men constantly" trope in society. Its almost like the very thing feminists become they swear to destroy. Society and life is more complex than "shit on men and worship women".

When feminists say "all men bad" "kill all men" "men are dogs" "men are b***hes" "masculinity is fragile" and so on, the ignorance of men being oppressed throughout history is really telling, and the same ~~strong~~ "fragile" men have built this world. Putting the bourgeois royalties' doings on "men" exclusively is incredibly fascistic of feminists, and is the reason why I have taken one step back from leftism, while maintaining 10 steps distance from rightism.

If you want to know how leftist I am, I have been a 1 year long dedicated member of Lemmygrad.

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Manosphere is a very specific thing. They're the Andrew Tate types. If it's a legitimate form of mental health or self care thing, it isn't Manosphere. Hell, if it's mental health, it's rarely branded as male orientated because it's genderless advice.

You're creating this weird narrative in your head. The feminists you have a problem with are a minority who are only visible because they're gaming the algorithm. They have no effect on your daily life.

[–] TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml -3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Most feminists and women brand men's safe spaces as redpill, right wing, part of manosphere, horrible and so on. They absolutely have an effect on me, the way random transphobes have an effect on the existence of transgender people. Men are not treated like equal humans with compassion, just because 0.1% rich ultracapitalists or harassers or rapists have subjugated women in society. There is no desire for equity or equality, but gender superiority. Plenty women who distance themselves from feminist movement agree with this today.

Manosphere is a very vague term in itself, even though it started as simply redpillers and Tateists. Wikipedia defines it as a "collection of websites, blogs, and online forums promoting masculinity, misogyny, and opposition to feminism.[1] Communities within the manosphere include men's rights activists,[2] incels (involuntary celibates),[3] Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW),[4] pick-up artists (PUA),[5] and fathers' rights groups.[6]"

Its true that manosphere has misogyny, and that it has issues, but it provides an alternate point of view and is NOT all Tateists, even if there does exist misogyny, the same way misandry and vitriolic hatred for men exists in female safe spaces, which are abundant today. The world is not all black and white, and just as men treat women like a pair of breasts and a vagina, women treat men with the well known small dick hand gesture and other verbal slangs for degradingly equating us with penis. Women are more compassionate than men, and they have chosen to keep it all to themselves with their sisterhood. Men have no brotherhood today.

Every feminist I have met, no matter radical, communist or liberal, has always degraded and blamed all men, and downplayed issues with women while screaming "all men _____" the moment anything happens. And literally anything you say against this makes you a redpiller, woman hater, incel or any of the buzzwords they decide to cancel you with. I have a lot of grievances with it, and it affects all men, which includes me, so I will find solace in places that support men instead of supporting agendas aimed to hate men. Men have unheard grievances, and if feminists think they will win the battle against half the planet, their movement deserves to crash and doom. Feminism by the day is behaving less like a leftist movement for equality for both sexes, and more like a woman supremacist movement with right wing shades.