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I mean, if my friends knew I was a huge fan of the band, were going and weren't like, "tickets are ยฃ50, do you want one?" It would sting.
Thats a specific situation you're imagining and isnt necessarily what happened
I did realise that it's a specific situation but as the original post didn't have more context, I didn't see why I shouldn't be allowed to suggest some.
If OP wants to expand on the situation, they're welcome to.
I wasn't planning on it, my GF bought the tickets without asking me about it, and didn't know about my pal being into the band. But my friend figured I was the one who left her out. Plus, not everyone gets invited to everything, hey I'm dating someone here. Called me up and berated me about being a bad friend without saying what it was she was mad about. I prefer not to have friends that use that kind of rhetoric.
Fair enough