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Why IS dating rule for guys (lemmy.world)

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[–] Tyr_Raidho_Othala@reddthat.com 10 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

appearance of happiness

I see now. That is holding me back by a lot.

[–] syreus@lemmy.world 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

The whole fake it till you make it thing can be applicable here but therapy is valid and cheaper than you think. You are worthy and deserving of love.

[–] greedytacothief@lemmy.world 10 points 14 hours ago

I strongly recommend being happy, one of the best feelings really. I've tried the other emotions and they just don't feel the same. (But seriously I'm no fun when I'm depressed. People like being around happy people, it's contagious)

[–] svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Rule 1. Be happy.

Rule 2. Don't be unhappy.