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Do you have experiences where your family members are so much engaged in doing something/sports that the their skill of "lets just sit and have a talk" is nonexistent? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by xelar@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Everytime when I visiti parents home it seems that don't care I'm even there. They have their "sports routines", which cannot be stopped. It happens to others too. Most topics revolt around what matches they had, with whom and watch matches in TV. Whenever they go to some holidays they look for sports hall for playing. They take part in exercises with coach, they play occasional games with 20+ friends.

The last time I had some talk, was that one time couple months ago when I brought the board game to improve our family integrity and communication skills, to get to know each other better, but that was once.

I feel that I I know them mostly on the surface level currently.

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[–] WatDabney@sopuli.xyz 29 points 2 months ago

Just the opposite. I'm the one who goes off to do something else at family gatherings because they just talk and talk and talk.

Though it's not so much that they talk so much as that it's just the same stuff over and over - alternately, my brother slavishly regurgitating right-wing techbro quasi-libertarian bullshit and my mom reciting in excruciating detail some anecdote that's maybe vaguely related to the topic at hand and that she's told countless times already, because it's her go-to every time something in that vicinity comes up.

And what I wouldn't give to know them less well...