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For example workplace harrasment by women towards males like touching or groping being ignored because the victim is male but if it where to happen to a woman by a male the male would be fired

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[–] Ekybio@lemmy.world 115 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (20 children)

Men are often expected to swallow their emotions and just "function", while women are allowed and even encouraged to display them openly

[–] insaneinthemembrane@lemmy.world 58 points 2 months ago (14 children)

That's a funny one because men are celebrated for suppressing emotions and women are penalisd for showing them.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 36 points 2 months ago (8 children)

Its sort of crazy how there's no real effort to help people develop their emotional intelligence as a kid or beyond. It should be like no later than grade 1 or 2 where people learn about their feelings and setting limits with people.

So many parents gasp at the idea of their child actually having boundaries that are to be respected because muh dominion or they never learned about it themselves and aren't open to everyone simply being more observant and respectful of them

[–] insaneinthemembrane@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago (2 children)

One reason we chose the school my kids go to is because they do teach about emotions and friendship and so on.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Thats awesome! Super important stuff for being well and a good person to have around for others

[–] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Yeah, it is one of the things I love about the district we are in. They are big on EQ and also very inclusive (my kids are on the spectrum, so I like that they actively teach about inclusion).

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