Asklemmy

43966 readers

1500 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy 🔍

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

Open-ended question
Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

Lemmyverse: community search
sub.rehab: maps old subreddits to fediverse options, marks official as such
!lemmy411@lemmy.ca: a community for finding communities

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~

founded 5 years ago

MODERATORS

People who are 1s and 2s on this scale, do you watch adult video? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 4 months ago by frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

168 comments fedilink hide all child comments

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[–] froh42@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

I agree with the last statement at about a 70% level. The last 30% missing is - like you can't tickle yourself, there's some sensations that are different just because another person does them to you.

I'm not anti relationship, it's just when viewing sex alone a lot of the things I experienced with someone else are just overrated. With very very few exceptions when I met humans with extremely high emotional intelligence.

But maybe in the end that's all a discussion, that we all are generally bad in knowing and communicating what feels good for each other.