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Guitar is the only hobby I acquired that never took. I wanted it to take, but did not have the funds to pursue lessons.
I could not get over the beginner hurdles of how to strum, how to really hold the pick, and so forth. If I could have taken lessons or gotten past that I might have learned and still be playing today instead of seeing the case just sitting there collecting dust.
The strumming is a nightmare I agree, but even the simplest songs that only require 2 strings without wide strumming are impossible, accidentally muting the strings, not pressing enough, moving the fingers fast, using your pinky... Is such an impossible instrument
Dude it's just practice... Id suggest spending 50 bux on a classical guitar, the nylon strings and far enough apart and gentle on your hands. You'll be amazed.
I have both guitars. Both are just dust holders
Months. Not years, I would NEVER try anything that take that long, not even videogames
The typical "hur dur videogames are for childs" in what decade are you living, the 80s?
Sucking for months isn't fun, that's it. Also bands are literally doing THEIR JOB. Of course they can't be doing and practicing that for just months.
Man, most bands start as a group of friends playing together for fun. Yes, sucking isn't fun - the fun comes from surmounting those obstacles and seeing yourself improve. I sucked at Dark Souls when I first picked it up, but I wanted to be good, so I sat down and practiced parrying against basic enemies until I could get it consistently. I suck at guitar too, it hurts my fingers and makes my hands cramp and it wasn't worth it to me to push through that to get good.
You know what I did about it? I sold my guitar on craigslist and moved on. I didn't go on the internet and whine about it, nor did I get impudent with people who took the time to offer me advice - really rather good advice, in this thread. Your attitude sucks. Adjust that, and then either sit down and practice or find a new hobby. Nobody gives a shit that being bad makes you sad.
Wtf is that an insult? Get lost
That's not a reality where I live so fuck me I guess. Also I'm an adult. Not a "kid from a band"