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Do I need a good argument for you to respect my opinion? (lemm.ee)

submitted 6 months ago by spiderwort@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[+] spiderwort@lemm.ee -14 points 6 months ago (1 children)

But language cannot convey perspective. It can only refer to it. Language only works when perspective is shared.

If perspective is not shared then, tho we use the same words, the meaning we assign to them differs. We may appear to be communicating but we really aren't quite, there's something broken there, and that brokenness generally gets translated as "this guy is just stupid".

This is a problem with language and the internet.

[–] PeepinGoodArgs@reddthat.com 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

I know exactly what you mean!

But there's a really easy way to solve that problem: ask for clarification and then check to make sure your understanding of the concept matches theirs.

For example, when you say "We may appear to be communicating but we really aren’t quite", the meaning of the word ' 'communicating' slides between different meanings. From my understanding, in the first case you mean a shared understanding of the terms under discussion, and in the second case you mean talking past each other, where people don't really address the substance of the discussion.

Right? And you're saying this is a problem of language and the internet?

If so, then I agree that it's a problem of language, and one that language can just as easily solve. I don't think it's a problem of the internet, though, but the social dynamics of internet certainly don't help.