That's because we destroyed the primitive communal family to create the nuclear family. Humans throughout most of history would raise their children collectively, rather than all the responsibility just being dumped directly onto the parents.

And they wonder why we don't have kids lol

[–] kassuro@feddit.de 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

That's true, we also have the unfortunate situation that we don't have any relatives that could support us. All grand parents live at least ~5 hours away. Moving isn't really an option for my wife because of her work currently.

Really sucks...

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 8 months ago

it's so wild because we still have the saying that it takes a village to raise a child!