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Are you replacing Reddit with Lenny? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 year ago by girldick@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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This seems like a good place so far tbh

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[–] Bearded_Baguette@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm fortunate that I'm at a point in my life where I need to limit my porn consumption. Otherwise, 100% agree

[–] HardTea@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Any tips on cutting back on the fap?

[–] Bearded_Baguette@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Meme answer: rely on porn from one website and wait for that website to implode cough reddit cough

Real answer: I try to limit myself to once every 2-3 days. I've found that as I get older, an orgasm takes a lot out of me and makes me much more tired. If I feel the urge to fap late at night, I try to think "nah, I'll just do it tomorrow morning" and go from there. Finding other hobbies/activities to distract is also a great way to cut back on the fap.