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A follow up from my older asklemmy post, saying goodbye to a teacher who helped me a lot through my stuff, was thinking maybe chocolate, but one of the dudes said that it’s not a very good idea, I was thinking maybe a perfume/cologne? What do you guys suggest? She is in probably in her early 20s if it helps, and I am in senior high, damn this is getting weirder and weirder, I just want to run away lol

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[–] morgunkorn@discuss.tchncs.de 45 points 9 months ago (1 children)

A fountain pen or a nice moleskin notebook with a note saying how her lessons will help you in your future life.

I think a perfume is too personal and might come out as a romantic gesture (and difficult to choose if you don't know what she likes anyway).

[–] fastandcurious@lemmy.world 15 points 9 months ago (2 children)

A nice fountain pen seems like a good idea, Thanks!

[–] Akuchimoya@startrek.website 14 points 9 months ago (1 children)

As a fountain pen user, I would suggest against that unless you know it suits her personality. Fountains pens require maintenance, and certainly it's easy maintenance, but it's definitely more work than a ballpoint. They are a hobby, and if it's is not her thing, she'll never use it.

I would instead recommend a nice ballpoint pen set where the ink can be replaced when empty. Something she can use without having to think about or maintaining it.

[–] fastandcurious@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

Tbh I am kinda thinking of somehow giving some muffins, maybe go to school early, like ppl said, teachers have a lot of clutter so pen might not be the best choice

[–] BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Speaking as a teacher here: do not buy any teacher anything, as in NOTHING.

I would be super weirded out if a student gave me something.

We had a student of more years than most, present the teacher's lounge with a chocolate basket once, and everyone thought it was strange. So presenting a teacher with a personal gift would be even stranger.

But if you insist on getting her a gift, perfume would be up there with lingerie and jewelry ... WTF dude?

what should you do? how about you decide what it is that you want to say. Like "you did so and so, that meant a lot for me because of so and so".

  • Figure out what to say
  • make sure you don't spend more than 30 or 45 seconds to say it.
[–] fastandcurious@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

Idk but judging from the username, maybe this kind of culture is there in nordic countries? Idk but here students give gifts all the time on teachers day, I just don’t know what is in those boxes lol, as I never attend these kind of events, and idk if ppl give them outside of these events