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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by PugJesus@kbin.social to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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[–] PugJesus@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

If memory serves, when something shitty happens to you because of your gender, but it also affirms your gender and feels... well, affirming.

[–] oscar_falke@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago

Like when an old disgusting man makes a disgusting joke about "wife bad" and looks at you with an "am I right or what?"-look. Last time that happened (it was a work colleague) I felt weirdly validated in my manlihood and felt like I'm part of the in group (I'm a cis man, but considerably younger that the other guy, and I was new in that place of work), while at the same time wishing that guy would just disappear into thin air. Disgusting feeling.

[–] reeen@aussie.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Like the gender affirming parrot that only bites men?

[–] ichmagrum@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

So a mix between (gender) euphoria and "Ew, gross!"? Got it.