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What's a song that really expresses or imparts a skill or important truth to internalize (lemmy.world)

submitted 10 months ago by cheese_greater@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Little Black Sandals - Sia

Boundaries. To me, the little black sandals represent boundaries or the abillity to recognize and extricate yourself from whatever you consciously+unconsciously feel is dangerous and unsafe for you

The line where he says he'll let go only if only she explicitly asks it is the exact opposite of how it should be, where the default is no and inviting people to opt-in to that which may be triggering.

I like that tea analogy where boundaries is as simple as whether or not you'd like a cup of tea. Invite and have consent before you use it up for someone who doesn't want or cannot accept it

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[–] cro_magnon_gilf@sopuli.xyz 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Lick it before you stick it - Denise Lasalle

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Clever girl