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[โ€“] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You gotta understand just how few pictures men have of themselves. Most of us aren't randomly taking selfies; a lot of us don't even have pictures of us with our friends.

[โ€“] OceanSoap@lemmy.ml -2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

The point is the effort. Dating takes effort. If you can't even make the effort to ensure you get a nice pic or two of yourself, how much effort are you going to put into a relationship?

There are very easy ways to take pics of yourself without it being a selfie nowadays. Phone tripods with Bluetooth remotes exsist for $25 off Amazon.

"We just don't have pics of ourselves." ...so take some, instead I of just rolling over and saying "oh well."