quickly jots down notes, “go fishing… catch fish… show to barbie.” got it, now what? I’m recently single after a long marriage, HOW DO I ATRACT WOMEN?11!?!

[–] averagedrunk@lemmy.ml 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You have women friends? Have them make your dating profile if you want to date online. Seriously. They'll make you sound awesome while telling the truth. Chances are at least one of them is good at taking pictures.

[–] Stupidmanager@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

Thanks. The comment was for comedic effect, but when I’m ready to date I’ll use this advice.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

HOW DO I ATRACT WOMEN?11!?!

Excessive amounts of Axe or Old Spice. Those ads would never lie about their efficiency!

[–] Stupidmanager@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

This is the helpful advice I was looking for! Heh

20 years later…. Why am I still single?!?1 I followed expert advice from Lenny!!!

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world -4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Talk to them. Just put a picture of yourself smiling nicely on your dating app and listen. Be a good dude.

[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You effectively can't just talk to women on dating sites. Thanks to how matching works, you have to successfully sell yourself with pictures to get your profile read, and successfully sell yourself with words in the profile before you can actually talk with anyone.

Back before matching was a thing, it wasn't much better. You could talk but you'd usually be ignored because the woman's inbox would be filled with too much crap for her to go through it all.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world -2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

To be honest I've never used a dating site, I'm too old.

[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 1 points 10 months ago

Lucky you.

[–] baronvonj@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Just put a picture of yourself smiling nicely on your dating app

About that ... https://healthland.time.com/2011/05/27/advice-for-online-daters-if-youre-a-guy-dont-smile/

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world -1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I can say that would turn me off.

[–] baronvonj@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, it's a broad generalization, and the article is 12 years old so trends may have changed since then.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Maybe because I'm almost 50 and tired, but I just want someone who is nice to me.

[–] MasterBlaster@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I gave up after my second divorce, I hope you have better luck. Beware, most seem to be looking for free everything with no work for them.