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What's the biggest "Green Flag" that could be misinterpreted as a "Red Flag"? (midwest.social)

submitted 11 months ago by Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I was only disputing that op said it should have "no bearing" not that it's the most important thing.

Also though, compatible levels of interest in sex is extremely important in monogamous relationships. For any other interest or need I can engage alone or with friends if my partner isn't interested. For sex, I need my partner to be on board.

[–] bouh@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Here you're supposing that a virgin will be by choice.