Because most non terminally online people have dignity and standards in their search for a partner, but you retards are so her choice you've horseshoed shaming people who want to make the choice to not date and marry ewhores. Normal people have the expectations you've dated and have had sex before. They do not expect, nor want, you to have been a wannabe pornstar with irreversible actions.

Each side is valid, as they're adults who hopefully have all their mental acuity, but don't expect anyone to cater to your worldview and choices. Actions have consequences and it's up to you to care about them. Diversity of opinion makes a healthy ecosystem.