I think "gay/straight " describe more than 90% of people. It is useful. What is not useful is making politics out of this, including blaming the other side for being immoral, and "identity politics".

[–] miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

All I'm saying is that describing attraction based on appearance can often make things much easier than stricly basing it on sex or gender identity.

[–] MxM111@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah! Got you. However, girlclock is part of appearance too.

[–] miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh yeah, absolutely. And that's what I mean by saying sexuality is complex, people can have such a wild mix of preferences.

[–] MxM111@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

So then you agree that it is not gay for a woman to like girlcock (maybe it is not straight either, but importantly it is not gay). Checkmate returned :)