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[โ€“] DevastatedBungHole@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So what you're actually suggesting is an ultimatum, not really sympathetic. You're lucky he gave a fuck what you thought

[โ€“] Thisfox@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago

He told me he wanted to quit, he quit, he is still happy he quit. He sees it as a positive. After watching my grandparents die slowly and painfully of smoke-caused cancer, I am glad he quit too. It improved his quality of life, and he is a happier, less angry person. But you can draw any conclusion you want.