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Cis Masculinity Rule (midwest.social)
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[–] Ashe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Oh hey that was me for over 15 years!

I'm transfem now and happier than I've ever been.

With all of that being said, feel things out. Gender isn't a race to a goal, it's who you are and what that means for you. It took 3 separate personality crises before working through the fear and anxiety of it all. Even if you're just cis, what's important is that you get to be yourself.