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[–] mycorrhiza@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

they'd rather post PPB and "liberals get the wall".

what do you want from them, a good faith response? when half the people they talk to are people like this guy? or people like you, who dismiss their views from a distance and respond with with superficial vibes-based criticisms while having little or no understanding of what they actually think or why?

[–] liquidparasyte@pawb.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I dismiss their views out of hand because I have history with people who espoused very similar views and they showed themselves to have a very superficial understanding of leftism, socialism, communism, and various leftist writers. They exalt historical figures of communist movements to apostolic, sometimes even deity-like status, and throw theory at people like it's scripture. They take the counter to the west's propaganda against communism to be full-throated propagandists for communist projects, even for valid criticisms.

But really, even if their political lens was the truest and freest, I still would not like them because they are fucking obnoxious and utterly insufferable. They larp on their local instance about "performing coups on other instances" and "doing the emotional labor of educating Lemmy users" when in reality they are abrasive, unpleasant people hamfistedly applying leftist social and economic critiques as a cudgel to dunk on people if they don't automatically agree with them, be they fascist, racist, liberal or even leftist.

I saw the debacle with Blahaj and how Hexbear users acted. Whatever critique of their adminship could have been made is completely drowned out by the manipulative yet dense behavior of their accusers during and after.

What I want from them is to not immediately look for reasons to take the least charitable interpretation of someone's point and derail threads, stop acting as if they own every single instance, stop larping as if they are building a leftist revolution across the fediverse and go outside, and to stop posting obnoxiously large server emojis all over every fucking thread.

It's a distinct blend of the worst of Reddit communists and Twitter users and I don't appreciate it when they decide to pull that nonsense in other instances beyond their own.

[–] mycorrhiza@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I dismiss their views out of hand

I don't care what comes after this. I still read it, but I don't care. "You knew some people, therefore hexbear is those people."

they are fucking obnoxious

what do you say about the guy I linked to in the last comment? You don't think hexbear's obnoxiousness might be a reaction to years of talking to people like that? You don't think maybe at this point they expect it and that's why they're flippant?

not immediately look for reasons to take the least charitable interpretation of someone's point

look at how your own instance talks, this is absurdly hypocritical.

[–] liquidparasyte@pawb.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't care what comes after this. I still read it, but I don't care.

Cool, I suppose I shouldn't take any of your arguments seriously then.

"You knew some people, therefore hexbear is those people."

No, I knew some people who showed bad behavior, and Hexbear users are showing similar behavior.

what do you say about the guy I linked to in the last comment?

Yeah, they're somewhat obnoxious. It's annoying to see communists lumped in widely with fascists. They aren't 14-year-old Stalin-fancam sea-lion-posting-in-every-Lemmy-instance obnoxious though.

You don't think hexbear's obnoxiousness might be a reaction to years of talking to people like that? You don't think maybe at this point they expect it and that's why they're flippant?

Maybe it is a reaction to to people like that. I do not give a fuck. Unless they're picking beef with long-storied rivals, everyone else has been here for 2-3 months, maybe less. We are not the collective animus of every anti-communist they've ever met. We're people here to form link aggregator communities, and it's unacceptable for them to treat people here as punching bags for their past frustrations just because they have a bit of social power here.

There's a wide range of people with political opinions here, and left-wing populism is quite popular here. If they changed their engagement, more people would be amenable to their community. But if they insist on acting the fool, they will eventually be sent back to the circus.

look at how your own instance talks, this is absurdly hypocritical.

Talk like what, furries? They're mostly nerds, not much political discourse there. Small twinge of liberalism/leftism maybe.

[–] mycorrhiza@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

for past frustrations

they're not past frustrations. look around. In fact, look at yourself, with your "I already know what hexbears think and why without ever talking to them" dismissal. That is frustrating, right now in the present, because you don't know what you don't know. Hexbears are well-read and have detailed, serious takes, which they generally do not post outside their own instance because no one gives a shit and no one will read them. You actually can't just understand them at a glance based on vibes and some people you knew once. And it's obviously arrogant to think you can. And that arrogance is fucking frustrating, especially since you don't even realize you're being arrogant and you're bewildered that people react poorly to it.