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To me it all started with bumping into r/minimalism years ago (shoutout to !minimalism@lemmy.world, the migrated r/minimalism) and reading books about it.

I noticed that with minimalism came simple living, enjoying the small things in life. I often feel like they are interconnected due to this, but this could just be my experience.

How many others had a similar experiences, or did something else bring you here? Also welcome experiences about directly searching for simple living topics and bumping into this community (originally on reddit).

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[โ€“] inasaba@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I typed a response to this yesterday, but my phone ate it. ๐Ÿ™ƒ For anyone else trying to comment here, you need to explicitly set the language of your comment to "English" when responding to Kbin users (which OP is.)

I started out in spaces related to minimalism before I found the simple living movement. It definitely felt like a good fit in some ways, but a very bad one in others. For example, I definitely prefer to own less stuff than the average person, but I would say that for me this comes from a rejection of consumerism. Whereas many "minimalists" are very driven by consumerism: opting for buy very few items, but only those of the best brands or with the right "aesthetic."

There is also a tendency for grifting in those spaces. People become microcelebrities and put out blogs, videos, and even documentaries all rehashing the same, meaningless message. "My life was so terrible, and then I discovered minimalism and discarded all my possessions, and now my life is great." The epitome of this is "The Minimalists," two guys who somehow ended up with a Netflix documentary. This content has a great aesthetic, but lacks substance of any kind. They fail to dig into the things that explain why shopping doesn't make us happy (the hedonic treadmill,) or provide a meaningful critique of consumerism.

So, compared to the average person, I would say that I am a minimalist. But it isn't an identity I would tout in front of self-professed "minimalists," because we have fundamentally different values.

[โ€“] Lazycog@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I am so sorry I did not realize Kbin does that... no wonder I've had issues. I usually post on my lemmy account but have really been liking kbin lately. Seems I don't even have an option to post with "undefined" language.

Now, you put it exactly how I feel about this topic! I got into it from a blog post, checked out the infamous "minimalists" and Marie Kondo, but felt like the message is the same and feels like they are just trying to make a lot of money on the concept of minimalism after the first two paragraphs of text. Be it podcast, netflix show or anything else.

The great thing I got from it all was the mentality against consumerism. I didn't realize how social media conditioned me to follow the latest trends and buy the newest gadgets.

Thanks for your awesome response (and sorry about the post settings).

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