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Thank you for the advice. The relationship thing I can see, I have 15+ years of stuff to unpack.
And the part about my son having a better life after the divorce, I see how it will benefit him. That's going to be my anchor to get through this. He won't be happy, obviously, when he learns about it, but we're doing it with a full plan, and introducing it with his therapist when the plan is ready.