I am also new here and I am a long time lurker, 2008, from the place that shall not be named.
My initial feel is that Lemmy is very much like pre Digg days and a kin to the traditional style forum boards where discussions aren't old news when the post is only 12 hrs old.
This is a breath of fresh air even with the growing pains I expect may come with the sudden influx of refugees.
I have had the Shure SE215 for several years used as general use no gaming. They offer both 3.5mm jack and wireless styles. They do loop over the ear for in ear phones so I am not sure if they would also put pressure on your glasses.