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My old person trait is that I think 'ghosting' is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.

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[–] Mandy@beehaw.org 26 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Dumb TVs, its either 1.5k plus or you will literally never find one. I don't wanna be profiled or have some stupid android is on it. All it needs to do is display images on screen.

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[–] Navarian@lemm.ee 25 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Likely an outdated one, or one that's already been given a number of times, but – Physical Books.

I'm not entirely 'anti' e-reader, the benefits are obvious. I'm just VERY pro physical book.

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[–] torcularis@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For me, I miss the days when you could browse a website without popups for cookie consent, creating/signing up for an account, paying them money, and disabling your ad blocker.

[–] Amputret@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

To be fair, I'd rather always be asked for cookie consent than the websites hoover up every last bit of information about me without my knowledge or consent.

Totally agree with the rest of your points though. Like, why do I need an nVidia account to download fucking drivers?

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[–] MrPeach4tlanta@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The third one is my old person trait. Also, grumpiness, and wanting the right to repair my own devices.

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[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 23 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I don't want an iPad glued to my car's dashboard. Touch screens are fine but the current screen sizes and placement are ridiculous. It's a car, the screen shouldn't be distracting you.

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[–] visiblink@lemmy.sdf.org 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I like to stay home. Leave me alone.

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[–] neocamel@vlemmy.net 23 points 1 year ago

My old person trait is when someone offers me coffee, I look at my watch.

[–] ckskate@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Mine is that I miss the days when physical media (DVDs, VHS, etc) was the main way to own media

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[–] ikiru@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I think I should be allowed to order food from a restaurant without needing to scan a QR code which requires me to have a smart phone and an active, paid plan in order to access their menu.

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[–] Pandoras_Can_Opener@mander.xyz 20 points 1 year ago

Yeah that line was used by my abusers way to often. They just "can't understand" why I'd go no contact. As if the last 300 explanations were somehow non existent. Nope. I don't owe you anything.

And my old person trait is my walking stick I suppose.

[–] luka@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (4 children)

My old person trait is that I don't like short form video, I learn and internalize less and find that my day is chipped away at by tiktok or youtube shorts when I allow myself to watch them.

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[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I kinda agree with you op on ghosting being unacceptable, but NOBODY is entitled to see my face NO ONE. It is not ghosting to straight up tell someone "I am no longer interested in continuing to stay in contact with you."

Likewise, my old person trait is the belief that your identity and all details pertaining to it are PERSONAL including voice, likeness, biometric statistics, location, interests - basically, the default human presence online is TEXT ONLY AND NO DESCRIPTION OF ANYTHING CONCRETE until and unless they choose to intentionally disclose more, and nobody, not one mother FUCKING person OR THING has the right to demand of you any more than that. Lastly, that you should guard your information greedily and viciously.

[–] S0L1DX@lemmy.sdf.org 18 points 1 year ago (6 children)

My old person trait is I think cashless-only businesses should be illegal.

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[–] WarpScanner@lemmy.fmhy.ml 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I dislike and distrust short form video based social media. But that seems to be the common response.

IDK if I even consider that an "old person" trait though because there are lots of Zoomers that seem to hate it to. Though I wonder if that's because generational cultures are melding together more because of the internet.

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[–] fiasco@possumpat.io 18 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Mine is that a cellphone should be a phone first, instead of being a shitty computer first and a celllphone as a distant afterthought.

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[–] elbowdrop@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

10pm being late. When I was young I would stay up until 2-3 am doing stuff.

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[–] Valravn@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 year ago (4 children)

My old person trait is that I don't trust paying with your phone. My whole family does it and it has never gone wrong, but I feel uneasy

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[–] shadowfly@feddit.de 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)
  • Just installed a messenger. It uses more RAM than my first PC had for displaying a simple, empty list. I find that inexcusable.
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[–] BornVolcano@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My old person trait is when someone tells me what they mean, they better damn well be telling me what they mean, because I'm not gonna play mind games with them. If you tell me you're not upset then I'll believe you're not upset, I'm honouring you and your words and trusting that you're being upfront and honest with what you want me to know. And if you secretly are upset, it's not my responsibility to know that, you did not tell me.

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[–] Gabu@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago (9 children)

I don't understand TikTok... at all. Like, what's even the point as a user?

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[–] prowert@lemmy.zip 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I think everybody here has an old person trait. Joining the fediverse

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[–] DrZaious@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

My old person trait is nothing on the internet should expect a fee for use, streaming services excluded.

I remember the days when you paid for having the internet and that's it. No content hidden behind some patron paywall or membership fee. Content was willfully shared and distrubuted because that's what the internet is for that and infornation.

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[–] BrownianMotion@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If you put something in my mailbox, where it is explicitly labelled that your unregistered shit is unwelcome. I will come out and find your parked car.

Did you think your stupid shit was that important? If I am selling my house I will never use Ben Gow. Or any of the others that are too stupid to read. Those people who cannot read basic requests - "NO JUNKMAIL" meaning your advertising shit, are not going to get used.

You will never get commission (or a purchase) you dumbshit losers, too dumb to read a mailbox sign, your definately too stupid to be given the risk of selling my asset.

[–] mysoulishome@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

In my 40’s I feel like everything about me is an old person trait.

As a trauma survivor, all of the people I’ve ghosted in my life were toxic and bad for my mental, physical and emotional health and I have no regrets. It’s kind of like the Billy Crystal speech in When Harry Met Sally, except the opposite. When you realize you don’t ever want to see a person again for the rest of your life…you want the rest of your life to start immediately

[–] wutamisposedtodo@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (3 children)

My old person trait is that I listen to old radio shows and watch a ton of classic movies and shows.

I'm 28 and don't even know when I discovered this exactly but on archive.org there's a group of people called the Old Time Radio Researchers Group who catalogue and archive all of the old radio shows. Some of the episodes sound like they could have been recorded yesterday just because they're in such high quality.

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[–] Grishaix@feddit.de 13 points 1 year ago (3 children)

My old person trait is that a digital file I paid for should be DRM free.

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