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[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Honestlyyyy.

My biggest issue rn is credit card debt. My dog needed multiple surgeries and my car needed fixed. I have 2 maxed out cards and no interest until November. It's only like 6k to pay off, but it's still overwhelming because I've never had to deal with this type of thing before. I think I can get it all paid off before November, but it's still a daunting task.

Rip my fun summer plans.

[–] PM_Your_Nudes_Please@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Yeah, life always seems to throw expensive problems at people all at the same time. I thought I had a pretty good nest egg saved up, and then boom… Car shit the bed, cat needed surgery, wife had a hospital stay, and a few other big life events. All while the economy is in the garbage, inflation is in the high double digits, the wife is out of work (due to the aforementioned hospital stay), and any hope of a social safety net was being dismantled right in front of me.

I didn’t even consciously realize how stressed I was about money, until I realized I had fallen back to pirating my PC games instead of just buying them. I hadn’t been a prolific pirate since my broke college student days… And then suddenly there I was again, browsing FG’s site for the latest repack, so I could install it in between shifts.

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I found myself going to my mom's place every day for dinner for a week and taking leftovers home. Now she's just automatically freezing portions for me. She knows my ass is BROKE

[–] raynethackery@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Staycation all I can afford, staycation can't get away, staycation guess I'll just be alone.

[–] Jimius@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Sure, but poverty is a lack of money. The inability to sustain oneself healthily. Once you have "sufficient" money, having even more won't make you happier.

[–] oatscoop@midwest.social 1 points 2 days ago

That was the original meaning, but it's also been co-opted by assholes as an "argument" against providing for people's basic needs.

[–] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 29 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I more think it's impressive they manage to still be unhappy with absolutely no reason to be so.

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[–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 23 points 2 days ago

Money alone can't buy happiness, but it sure helps with the down payment.

[–] Coreidan@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Ya the only people who say this bullshit are those that have never experienced hard ship before.

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago

If people have not experienced hard ship and they are still unhappy, they are qualified to tell you that the lack of economic problems does not bring happiness.

Just by pure logic.

[–] bravesirrbn@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

Getting 99 salary increases does feel unrealistic though

[–] Hyphlosion@lemm.ee 6 points 2 days ago

Well duh. Just apply for a leadership position. Double the stress for a dollar raise!

Money can't buy you happiness, but it can give you the foundation and support to look for it.

[–] mechoman444@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Money can't solve all your problems but it can solve most of them.

[–] Donkter@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Eh, some could also be solved with more time off.

[–] kevin@kitty.ly 5 points 2 days ago

Why not both? :D

[–] blaue_Fledermaus@mstdn.io 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Happiness is connected to contentment, feeling you have enough.
There are people living in their cars who are happy, and elon musk, with all the money in the world, very much doesn't look like a happy person.

[–] Maalus@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

He is confirmed to be sufferring from treatment resistant depression, hence the ketamine. Or more accurately, esketamine nose injections. Expensive as shit, but a "wonderdrug" in treating it. At least when done by reputable doctors and not recreationally.

Edit: not that depression means sad, or that lack of it means happy of course.

[–] Armok_the_bunny@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I've always said if money can't buy happiness then what's the point in having it.

[–] notabot@lemm.ee 32 points 2 days ago

It buys a reduction in unhappiness, which is a good first step to hapiness, but money can't take you the next step of actually appreciating what you've got.

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[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Nobel Laureates Daniel Kahneman and Angus Deaton at Princeton University published a study in 2010 showing that money buys happiness only up to about $75k per year (in 2010 dollars, for Americans), at which point happiness plateaus and more money doesn't meaningfully buy more happiness.

Years later, Matthew Killingsworth at the University of Pennsylvania published a study showing that happiness didn't really plateau with money, but kept increasing at $75k and beyond.

They got together to see if they could reconcile their different findings from pretty similar methodologies.

As it turns out, Killingsworth's data did show the same plateau, at pretty much the same place, if you focus only on the least happy 20%. In a sense, the Kahneman data was focused on only measuring unhappiness, and didn't properly distinguish between people who were kinda happy, people who were moderately happy, and people who were really happy.

So now the most widely accepted analysis is that there are people who are deeply unhappy, for whom giving them more money might not make them emotionally better off, at least past $75k in 2010 dollars. But for the rest of us, the majority of people will continue getting happier with more money, well up to the $500k income.

Here's a write up of the collaboration

[–] Kaboom@reddthat.com 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Past a certain point, money can't buy any more happiness. Sure, you have a house, but what is it worth if there's no one to share it with?

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[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 days ago

I'm very close to paying off all my student debt. You'd think I'd be happier with the extra 250 a month now going to me, but.... it's really not a life changing amount. I can afford better groceries, and can save a bit for a rainy day. Other than that, nothing much really.

Financial independence would be life changing. Not seeing a large portion of my income going to rent, but to a property that I own and can happily invest time and effort into. That would be amazing

but it surely helps a lot, i mean i dont ask to be a billionaire, just enough for place to living, and i dont have to worry about food. and maybe with a pc gaming :) and i hope i dont need to go to hospital because sickness. just die while im asleep.. just burn my body or give it to some lion. i dont care

pardon my english

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