Selfhosted

I used NPM, It was pretty solid

Then I changed headspace and now I run SearXNG through cloudflare, and tailscale everything that doesn't need to be public.

I use nginx for static websites and TLS passthrough servers.

I use traefik as a reverse proxy for sites with many services and SSO.

Nginx is definitely easier to configure for simple things. But I prefer traefik for more complex setups.

I use nginx as the internet facing proxy, write my own config and manage it with source control. Also use traefik in docker land with service labels to configure it

I use both, Traefik on my docker host that's also used for trying out new stacks, and NPM at work for a config that won't change (ever, probably).

Yes, the NPM web ui is somewhat easier in regard to proxying targets outside Docker.

having tried many in past, i always go back to haproxy. it has everything required as proxy and load balancer while also being very efficient.

I highly recommend npm. It's also the only one I've used, so please keep that in mind.

I use Synology integrated reverse proxy, stupidly simple and always works for me (only if IPv6 doesn't fuck up itself, I can't fallback to IPv4 because that is CGNATED), if I am missing features that other options have I would like to know :)

This the main reason I switched from traefik, I can have certificates on all my internal stuff and not just on my docker host. I personally love NPM but maybe I'll give NPMPlus a try, I have never heard of it.

I like Zoraxy it has a lot of features, like Zerotier integration, status monitoring etc and a clean UI

Runs fine for my needs and fully replaced NPM for me 😊

You can run it in docker or as a single binary directly

I use and love nginx.

Maybe a bit more old fashioned than more modern solutions, but steady solid and versatile. I use it as reverse proxy ad well as proxy for php stuff and more.