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[–] shikitohno@lemm.ee 14 points 1 day ago

Basically, as soon as other reliable methods became widely adopted. No, I don't have any phone call related anxiety or whatever, I'll call someone if I really need to, I would just rather not. I'd much rather get a text that says, "Hey, we're meeting up at 7pm to go out and do, XYZ, do you want to come?" than a phone call that starts with that and turns to "So anyway, did I tell you my mom blah, blah, blah... And I don't know what to say, because I kind of want to go, but it would be a lot blah, blah, blah."

Phone calls with friends and family have a way of spiraling off into tangents when I don't necessarily have the time to entertain them, but don't want to be a dick all the time telling people I don't have time at the moment to listen to them. If there's a self-service section to a company's website or app, I can usually do whatever I need faster than it would take me to get through the automated menus and hold music to call and have them do it. Like my pharmacy, if I want to refill a prescription online, I log in, check a box and hit submit. Done. If I call them, I need to go through three menus to get patched through to the pharmacy, tell them what I want, hold for a moment while they help someone in the store, give them my info and wait for them to look it up, etc.

When I plan to meet up with people, I make plenty of time to talk to them and listen to whatever. When I get what I think is going to be a short phone call that devolves into tangents, I don't necessarily have the time to entertain whether the fact that my friend's cousin had his toe amputated due to gangrene means he should get the spot on his nipple tested for leprosy, or if he should just improve his personal hygiene and see if it washes off in the shower.

If something really is going to be a pain to communicate via text, schedule that conversation and we can have a call to discuss it, but I'm not answering phone calls whenever somebody calls out of the blue unless I'm interviewing for jobs or expecting a call about some sort of emergency.

[–] NightShot@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Because I take no joy in small talk, waste of time. I type basically as fast or even faster than I talk. I can maintaine multiple conversations at once. And I can answer when I want instead of being locked up with one person that gets its way.

[–] confusedbytheBasics@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

And I can answer when I want instead of being locked up with one person that gets its way.

Was the "its" a typo or do you think of people on the phone like objects that need to be moved aside?

[–] NightShot@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Typo, but when you put it that way - yes ?

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 25 points 1 day ago

About the same time that 99% of the incoming voice calls are scammers.

[–] Majorllama@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Combination of spam callers being more prevalent and the younger generation has unbelievably high social anxiety as a direct result of them mostly being raised indoors and alone with family.

I'm not saying that the way we older folks grew up was inherently better at all times, but it certainly forced us to converse with strangers and develop those skills.

My little twin brothers and my little sister were actually afraid to call a pizza place and order pizza when they were younger. They still don't really do phone calls aside from work related things or direct family.

[–] uberfreeza@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

I don't know why, but I despise phone calls. I'd even rather someone video call me or talk face to face. I just find it worse than every other method of communication.

[–] lol_idk@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Because we don't have those nice thick hard plastic handles to rest on your shoulder

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How did voicemail (or voice message) make it above skywriting?

[–] Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee 18 points 1 day ago (8 children)

Voicemail should be lower on that list, I'd rather take a call than check voicemail any day.

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[–] superkret@feddit.org 11 points 2 days ago

101 UNSCHEDULED VIDEO CALL

[–] merari42@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

How is skywriting so low on the list?

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