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I posted something similar before, but it did not gain too much traction, possibly due to time zones.

It would be cool to see a Lemmy online pen pal/chat pal thread. Tell us about yourself and your hobbies in comments! I’m a person in their 20s who likes world football, theoretical maths and physics, and FOSS stuff. I also like the outdoors and would love to share about outdoor adventures. Feel free to send me a message if you’d like to talk!

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[–] MrsDoyle@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hi! I'm 70, so retired and have many hobbies and interests. At the moment it's beekeeping and coastal rowing that take up most of my time. I took up rowing after arthritis put paid to dinghy sailing, and it's fantastic. I gave up racing this year but I sort of miss it. I keep bees with a community group, we have 15 hives on two sites. I'm also into photography, hill-walking, knitting, travel, gardening, all the old-lady stuff. And I enjoy tinkering with tech, I run a club website and a blog for a friend. What else? Baking, jam-making, DIY... I'm sure there's something I've missed. Oh, I made a pond and some frogs moved in, so I guess frog-watching? Is that a thing?

I always had penpals when I was a kid. My mother had one when she was a girl too, and finally got to meet her when they were in their 60s.

[–] falkerie71@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

Go you! I wish I would be cool as you when I'm 70.

[–] eric@014450.xyz 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm 33M, single dad, and recently widowed. My son takes up a majority of my time and I love just about every moment with him. In my spare time I'm learning guitar and enjoy playing video games with friends. My job is in software engineering and I enjoy tinkering with computers.

[–] minorsecond@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'm into

  • Ham radio

  • Powerlifting

  • Books

My life is pretty chill at the moment. Got laid off last month and am still on the job hunt.

[–] Thavron@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That is quite the combination.

[–] minorsecond@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Lol, yeah I don't quite understand how I've managed to get into all of these simultaneously.

[–] lml@remy.city 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I want to get into ham radio. Just like the fediverse, it's decentralized, and it's the original way to chat across the globe!

[–] minorsecond@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Do it! If you're in the US, you can even take the test online now.

[–] BettyWhiteInHD@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Ham radio

There are dozens of us. DOZENS!

[–] manitcor@lemmy.intai.tech 6 points 1 year ago

tech, movies, music and social media.

im one of those "works too many hours" types. If im not in front of a screen I'm hanging out with my family or the feral cats we are rehabbing.

[–] Che_Donkey@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

Chef (35 years in the industry) moved family out of the US in 2019, opened a restaurant 4 months before covid, run it with my wife...still here & have a great vibe.

Hike (not too much now, gimpy tendon & old) Bike (shifted down feom road to mountain/trail) Beach (every day in the summer) Travel (so far we have been sticking with exploring more of our adopted country) Eating

[–] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I really like your idea.

OK so I am 33M, i was addicted to drugs for my whole adult life basically up until over a year ago. I am a spiritual person, for lack of a better term. I have almost too much empathy for my own good. I love music. I play guitar and drums, write and record, for myself as therapy/meditation. I love writing poetry and im just starting to write my own story in a sort of stream of conscious style. I love all types of art, anything that captures the human spirit. I have a ton of wild stories of my escapades. I like lifting and being outside. I never went to college. I am a tradesman. I like to think im a good listener, who knows. I love talking to people, especially one on one. I like to think im honest, too much so. I can be quite entertaining, like a clown or jester. I am content with my life...for now. I'm kind of super into anime lately(3yrs). I'd also like to think I give somewhat serviceable advice, cause i Iived through a shit load of my own mistakes, and I am better for it. I practice reiki, and I believe the oneness permeating all things is malleable to the human consciousness... to an extent. I'm a fkn weirdo. Like a cat, I am entertained by very very small and seemingly meaningless and obvious things. I have an appreciation for life and its experience. I love thinking, learning and pushing the limits of my nervous system❀️

[–] Badass_panda@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I have a hobby of trying out new hobbies till I've accumulated a bunch of stuff, then losing interest and doing new hobbies!

I've stuck with carpentry/woodworking, wine / beer making / distilling spirits, and outdoorsy hobbies like skiing / sailing.

Like others here I really enjoy reading, video games, etc. Getting back into scuba!

[–] MrsEaves@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I have a hobby of trying out new hobbies till I’ve accumulated a bunch of stuff, then losing interest and doing new hobbies!

ah, my people

[–] jdb@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Reminds me of this from one of my favorite short video series years ago. Also, I'm the same!

[–] Pmmeyourtoaster@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
  • Native plants
  • Software
  • Sustainability
  • Hound dogs
  • Graphic Design
[–] Badass_panda@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Okay so I'm with you on the hound dogs, those fuckers are the best boys, every single one of em including the girls

[–] 3rdBlueWizard@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Biggest problem for me is finding other people enjoying my new hobby, at the same stage of learning, during the time period that I am into it.

I've been learning acrylic painting the last few weeks. I'd love to find a forum to discuss this while I'm still into it.

[–] Badass_panda@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

See now I just got tempted to go get acrylic paints and join you. Get thee behind me, satan

[–] iamhazel@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

I'm a 28 yo trans woman and switched careers from arts admin to data science in healthcare. I'm learning UE5 in the hopes of realizing a game idea (city-builder/resource manager on a floating Rubik's cube).

Special interests change regularly and include: electrical engineering, software development, anything space / cosmology / physics, sewing, piano, etc... It's a problem.

I adopted to cats Shadow Lady and Stinky Jane last year and they are everything to me.

Anti-hobbies include eating, partying, public speaking, and dancing.

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I really enjoy video games, crafts, dnd, reading, and taking care of my critters. I have one dog, 2 cats, and 10 ducks. I will be getting a puppy next weekend. My dog is a beagle, my cats are just regular tabbys, and the breeds of ducks I have are: 4 French white muscovies, 1 jumbo Pekin, one regular Pekin that's crippled, 2 cayugas, a golden layer, and a khaki campbell. The puppy I am getting is a goldendoodle.

I work in IT as a tier one help desk tech as a means to feed and shelter myself and my critters.

[–] DovahFiST@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

This seems fun! Here's me:

I'm 27, I'm a giant woodworking nerd who also loves video games and hobby electrical engineering. I was lucky enough to turn my passion into a career, where I have a unique job - I program and operate our rather old large format 5'*10' CNC router, and also do all the hand-cut joinery for the pieces that get ordered that require it. I can talk about CNC routing and woodworking in general for ages. I also love the concept of creating my own electronic and have dabbled a bit with raspberry Pi's, arduinos, ESP32's and various sensor gizmos and gadgets. I'd love to use my CNC and hobby electrical knowledge to create my own "cyberdeck" one of these days, and have a large horde of parts for a custom arcade cabinet I've been planning to build. Don't wanna write too much so I'll stop here - if you've got similar interests I think it could be fun to chat!

[–] skybreaker@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have no problem telling people I'm into video games (playstation and nintendo - mostly zelda right now), movies, and reading (lotr, stormlight). For some reason it feels like people shy away from saying they're into those things. Everyone knows you watch TV at night. No need to be coy about it. I'm also into soccer (playing and watching top 5 leagues) and music (playing guitar and piano).

[–] Deccarrin@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Zelda is awesome.

Lotr and brando are awesome.

Arsenal are awesome.

Guitars are awesome.

Sounds good to me.

[–] skybreaker@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I always love meeting other Sanderson fans. I feel like it's a really tight knit community. I'm looking forward to the discussions that we will be able to have on Lemmy someday when more people join. Journey Before Destination!

Have you played the new Zelda game?

And your a fellow masochist (i.e. Arsenal fan)? How long have you supported them? Who's your favorite player?

[–] LLovegood@mujico.org 1 points 1 year ago

I'm into FOSS too, and have had a lot of hobbies though currently I spend all my time with school and an internship.

[–] FlashZordon@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Early 30s Stay at Home Dad currently. Previously worked in a few various professions, electrician apprentice, laborer, and accountant.

A broad description of my hobbies would be tech in general, PCs, Keyboards, etc. Gaming and movies.

Life lately is finding ways to keep my toddler stimulated whether it be taking her to the beach or play groups. She starts preschool in the fall so I'm soaking up this time I'm getting with her, when she goes to school i will be looking for a job to get that double income back in the household.

[–] N0_Varak@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm into ham radio, tabletop gaming, 3d printing, and tech

I live in a rural mountain area, so I also get tons of outdoor time on the mountains and in the rivers.

What kind of outdoor adventures do you like?

[–] sour@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago
[–] minorsecond@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hey! I'm into ham radio as well. Perhaps we live nearby since you mentioned mountains. I'm in grid DM79.

[–] N0_Varak@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

FM08, different mountains. Glad to see there's some hams on here though!

[–] minorsecond@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Join us at the hamradio@lemmy.ml community!

[–] xedrak@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I love video games, board games, music, and traveling. I used to love programming too, but working as a software dev for as long as I have has kind of killed that passion πŸ˜…

Life is great! I feel very fortunate to not have a lot of stressors in my life. I hope that’s more common than it seems these days!

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[–] Lewistrick@feddit.nl 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I keep saying there should be a community for that, but at the same time Lemmy might be too small for that many communities.

Unfortunately I'm not the person you're looking for as a pen pal. Hope you find someone!

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[–] xtremeownage@lemmyonline.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Software developer in his 30s. I built automation for a living. I automate my house as a hobby. I automate all things.

(I also live building racecars)

[–] lml@remy.city 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's something I want to get into. I want to set up that self hosted software, forget what it's called, but you can integrate with IoT devices just like you can with a mainstream assistant service like Google Home.

What I really want to do is automate my blinds, which are the chain loop type, so I can say "house, open the living room blinds" like they did in Smart House, the Disney channel original movie (or maybe that was Home Alone 4, but we don't talk about that one). I found a little motorized device that integrates with these chain blinds but it was a bit pricey. Of course if I tried to make it with my own Arduino etc it would be an ugly mess.

[–] RadDevon@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sounds like you're talking about Home Assistant maybe?

[–] lml@remy.city 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] LostCause@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I got ADHD so I enjoy a lot of things, top of them are reading, drawing, writing, learning English and Japanese and various IT/tech tinkering.

Iβ€˜m working in SAP, though I see that only as a means to sustain myself and conform, but I refuse to see the work as part of my being or personality. I try to be pleasant and funny IRL, which Iβ€˜m told works well, but on the inside Iβ€˜m a depressed mess. I try to work on that in therapy, but itβ€˜s not super effective for me. Well it helped a bit, as I now have more of a "try to find joy in little things" attitude, but the doom is still all there.

Online, Iβ€˜m mostly to offload some of my darker thoughts on the world, which haunt me if I donβ€˜t let them out occasionally. Reddit was my main outlet for that as it had a large variety of "doomer" subs, now I got unleashed on the fediverse, right now looking for some anti-corporate instance or maybe something anarchist to fit into.

[–] Link69@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I’m a software engineer and as a hobby I organize events and play Super Smash Bros. Melee competitively!

Also I like to travel in Asia and plan to move there probably next year 😁

[–] MrsEaves@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mid-30s web designer equally versed in design and frontend development, quiet in conversation but loud in spirit and fashion choices. Hobbies are whatever I need and whatever I can get my hands on - today it’s woodworking and construction due to a burst pipe, last year it was cooking and zero waste living plus grad school, with dashes of IndieWeb, gardening, hydroponics, and plenty of internet in between. I don’t work too many hours in the traditional sense, but I do keep myself constantly busy - full time job, side gig, fixing all the things. I am often asked if I sleep. The answer is yes! I love naps, I usually take at least one a day.

tldr: neon chaotic hobby napper here, nice to meet you.

[–] the_football_maestro@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What sort of fashion are you into?

[–] MrsEaves@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Rainbow punk is probably the best way I can think of to describe it. If it’s candy colored, glittery, or black (because black helps colors pop) I’m all over it. I recently got a pair of magnetic glasses covers that is printed to look like a slice of watermelon, and it’s my favorite because I have pink hair at the moment and between that and the deep green lipstick I have I can get an awesome watermelon look going. I’m a big fan of mixing patterns and textures as well. I love figuring out how to get a good alt look going that makes people smile. 😁

[–] the_football_maestro@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh interesting! I dress mainly in athletic wear, football kits and flannel like a hardcore band so this is an interesting contrast! What did you study in grad school? Are you on a matrix server? Would love to chat more!

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