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[–] Vaggumon@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

On Tuesday November 19th, I had a stroke. My goal is to make it to next Christmas.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A job. I got laid off. Things are getting tight.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 2 points 1 day ago

I was in your situation this time last year. I got laid off in July, hired in September, and let go again in October. πŸ’œ

[–] klep@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

Food. I'm making just enough to get my bills paid, but I've been eating ramen and Mac and cheese for around a year. I just want to be able to have food in the fridge/cupboard. It's getting so fucking tiring to never have basic necessities to work so fucking hard to keep my bank account in the negative. I'm so fucking depressed.

Now that I'm done venting, I would absolutely love to be able to get some gifts for my brothers and sisters but it just doesn't look like it'll be feasible this year.

[–] NegativeInf@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

Supervolcano eruption.

[–] finderscult@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago

To not be homeless anymore.

[–] Anissem@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago

A not insane family

[–] mp3@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago

Peace and quiet, and some good nights of sleep.

[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 1 points 1 day ago

Cast iron, tools, bicycle parts.

[–] BreadOven@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Many horror movies that I didn't watch around Halloween.

[–] kautau@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I’m traveling internationally to visit my fiancΓ© and spend our first Christmas together. I just want the trip to go smoothly and take full advantage of the 120 PTO hours I’m burning without getting an urgent work call.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hate to add to the grumble but I’m not feeling it this year. I don’t really want more material things (boo!).

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Same. Everything feels unreal right now and it's hard to keep the mask on.

[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

For me it’s all the stress at work around the holidays (work harder before/after) then being invited to a ton of social things (I work from home and I’m happy for the most part being alone all the time). I actually love my job too so it’s more annoying than anything that everyone is in la-la land while I’m just wanting to get stuff done.

I hate showing up like a clown and not connecting with anyone; it’s all so fucking corny. I guess that’s married life though.

Basically just to have enough free time to make my cousin a 3d-printed version of this laser-guided pizza cutter as a joke gift.

[–] Jourei@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Wish comes true as I make it so, heading north to cottage!

Gift cards, books

Human rights for all

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 1 points 1 day ago

I have so much trouble with wishlists. The things I want are usually niche or expensive. I added an atomic wall clock and one of those boogie boards. I went ahead and added all the parts for a new computer I've been meaning to build for like 4 years lol. I'll just buy the remainder myself. I just got into ham radio but it seems tricky to find things that are relatively cheap to ask for on a wish list that aren't garbage.

Same as last year. Socks and whiskey.

[–] Krydex@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 day ago

Honestly, nothing :/ Maybe money, but when it comes to anything material there's hardly anything I really desire

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 day ago

I like twizzlers

[–] Today@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I'm hoping santa puts 36 piers under my house.