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As a long time Reddit user, there's something about Lemmy and the fediverse that feels really refreshing and new. I think it has to do with a few things...

  1. People are more respectful of each other and interested in discussion and being social.
  2. Less trolls (users are probably older?)
  3. Due to it not being absolutely huge, I feel like people will actually see my posts and comments instead of being lost in a sea of content. I suppose once Lemmy grows this will change, however the cool thing about the fediverse are the new servers. So you can stick to the server when you want smaller community discussion and go to "all" when you want more populated threads.
  4. The clean UI feels refreshing and clean, almost like the early internet.

What have you noticed? Do you find it refreshing too?

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Because it is?

[โ€“] sideone@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

People are more respectful of each other

Less trolls

I think you mean fewer ๐Ÿ˜œ

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[โ€“] PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 year ago (8 children)

I have noticed similar things, just like you. Here are mine:

  1. More respectful, thought-provoking commenters
  2. Being early on a fundamentally different site is cool (federated vs centralized)
  3. In really small sublemmies (Less than 10 posters I guess) I kinda get the small village feeling, where eventually everyone will know eachother, which is kinda wholesome.
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[โ€“] MyMulligan@lemmy.one 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The negativity is definitely less. Sure, out of say fifty comments to a post there's maybe two disgruntled souls. Overall it's conducive to discussion.

Over on reddit I kept to just hobby subreddits for the most part to make comments. Only way to not come across the trolls.

Yes, the clean UI is wonderful. It's good to have something simple. It's also fun to watch something grow.

The hobby subreddits and the smaller subs were the only ones I was sad to see go when moving to Lemmy, I was surprised by how much I didn't miss anything else at all .

[โ€“] SirEDCaLot@lemmy.fmhy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is absolutely true, and this is how the internet was back in the old days before Big tech and megaplatforms. People would set up little servers on their cable modems using spare laptops. It was experimental, it was imperfect, but it was ours. One side effect of this, was that you had to be at least a little bit smart to get yourself connected to it. Even if that just meant knowing that connecting to it was something that you wanted to do. That weeded out a lot of idiots who contribute low quality discussion. Also, because there is no giant company with a financial incentive to get everybody to use it as much as possible, things were built for raw functionality rather than trying to make them easy for people to get addicted to in 30 seconds. That naturally makes them more usable for anybody with an IQ over 90.

Also, no advertisements. No sponsored posts.

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[โ€“] fleabomber@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A lot of us have been nofapping reddit for a while so it's it a bit of a release to interact in this familiar way.

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[โ€“] Shaggy0291@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Because the people are all lovely

[โ€“] geqo@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

I'm a recent reddit semi-convert (haven't left Reddit entirely just yet) and I'm loving it so far

[โ€“] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Less repost bots. Seriously, I'm pretty sure 1/3 of posts I would see on Reddit were repost bots.

[โ€“] May@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Thats a big one i think. Iirc people would use an extension (or maybe a 3rd party app?) to block those users that commonly repost things and for a period of time i saw people saying their feed changed a lot on Reddit just from that. Tho Idk if thatd change much lately bc a lot of reposts I saw before coming here were from new account that were bots tryna build karma :/

[โ€“] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Because everything is small and manageable for mods right now, and everyone is talking to everyone else.

Lemmy also has the advantage that the default "hot" sort favors recency instead of upvotes so that you can get into a thread pretty late and still have your comments be seen.

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