if the kbin server you are using is struggling, you can always choose another instancs, such as https://fedia.io . See https://fedidb.org/software/Kbin for a complete list. If you are not happy with the moderators of your lemmy instance, you can use a different Lemmy instance too: https://join-lemmy.org/instances
fedia's Terms of Use and Privacy Policy are blank, so who knows who runs it and what their political views are? I'm testing it but I'm not supercomfortable recommending it yet.
Fedio.io is run by Jerry Bell. Not sure his political views, but he will run an excellent server. He runs the infosec.exchange Mastodon instance. He is the VP and CISO of IBM Public Cloud.
Here is his post announcing it. https://infosec.exchange/@jerry/110523070726279385
Apparently they had a falling out or something because there a similar post by the tankie including screenshots and proof that the dude that posted the above is lying.
I don't wanna start my experience by listening to someone else to be honest so I will decide for myself what is better for me.
And up until now lemmy has had a better experience for me than kbin social. Additionally I think kbin isn't open to signups anymore from what people are saying.
I have been using lemmy for more than a week now and have also talked with the dev/admin both regarding communities and on GitHub for a pull request I did. The experience was good and for now I will be staying here.
I also don't like the look of kbin and the ux for now.
I have an account in mastodon, kbin, tildes, raddle and lemmy and out of all, lemmy seemed to work the best for me, for now.
Yep definitely agree lemmy is the better experience. Kbin doesn't even have an app on Android. The nice thing is I can use either I guess, that's the benefit of the fediverse.
I guess I will just watch this space and see how things go
I'll paste here what I wrote on reddit a few days ago about the same topic
I think it's important to distinguish Lemmy as a software from Lemmy as an implementation (servers).
The software is opensource, noone "owns" that kind of software, many people contribute to it, anyone can fork it, modify it, and setup their own servers with it, regardless of the belief of the one who started the project.
Now, telling people to avoid the "main server"/"grad whatever" is fine, because those are the servers in which those "political views" are expressed.
But any instance of it? It doesn't make sense, many new Lemmy servers are popping up because of redditors trying the platform, and surely people setting them up now have nothing to do with what the main devs believe.
You can't put everyone in the same basket, it would be like saying that anyone having an iPhone is in favor of child labor, or that anyone eating Nutella is in favor of destroying the Amazon forest, or whatever other example you can think of products we consume daily that are detrimental to the health of our planet.
Heck even Reddit got investments from Tencent, a Chinese company, and we all know what the Chinese government thinks of human rights, yet we're here using the product.
Where to draw the line is of course a personal matter, but again, it doesn't do any good to "categorize" everyone based on the views of a few.
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Not to mention that kbin and lemmy are federated, they "talk" to each other, so if your only reason to choose kbin over lemmy is to avoid lemmy communities, you're out of luck, you'll see them all on kbin too.