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[–] neidu2@feddit.nl 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Not american, so that link doesn't apply to me. Here everyone is a potential donor, and the family decides. My immediate family knows full well that my organs are FFA when I don't need them anymore.

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[–] golli@lemm.ee 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I am not registered, but I have a organ donor card (where I approve organ donations).

Background:

Germany just recently (18th of March this year) launched an online database where you can register your preference. Until then there was only a small organ donor card that you could fill out and carry with you.

Reason I haven't registered there yet is that I first need to unlock the online function on my passport (nowadays always enabled, but I still have one from when it was optional). So I'll eventually get around to doing both.


As for my reasoning behind being a donor:

  • I would like to receive them in an emergency (or for someone I care about to do so).

  • And in case I become a donor I am not there anymore to care about what people do with my organs.

[–] argl@feddit.de 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

TIL, registering there right away.

I've had my donor card for a long time now (for about the same reasons as you), this solution seems at least a little better. I would still very much welcome an "opt-out" system, or something that would make the decision mandatory for everyone. You can always say no with no questions ask, but there are likely so many people that would have no problem donating but just never thought about the topic.

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[–] NeedingvsGetting@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago

I'm registered to donate, they won't take them unless I get an expensive genetic test. My brother just passed away, and they wouldn't let him donate anything because we had an aunt a couple of generations ago who had Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease (a prion disease that causes dementia)

[–] nudnyekscentryk@szmer.info 7 points 7 months ago

I am and I hope to have everything unsalvageable cremated

[–] rei@piefed.social 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I think I'm ineligible. I think my sibling tried to register but was they were told they were ineligible because we lived in Europe in the 80's

[–] 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 7 months ago (3 children)

What was in Europe in the 80s?

[–] Melobol@lemmy.ml 4 points 7 months ago
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[–] _lilith@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yeah but I wasn't for a long time. There was a spiderman cartoon where mary jane was targeted for murder because her name was in a database of organ donors and the villain needed her organs for his wife or something. scared the shit out of me when I was a kid and I had a knee jerk reaction when filling out the form I never really thought about. someone had to directly ask me before I realized I had based this decision on a cartoon I saw when I was 5.

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[–] Trent@lemmy.ml 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yes. I'd like to donate my body to science too, but I want to see if there's a way to do it non-profit. I'm not interested in helping make someone rich.

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the best thing i could ever do at the last moment of my life is help someone else get a second chance

[–] Art3sian@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

I’m not. I’m aware of how selfish it is but something in my system of belief that I have (undefined? spiritual? no idea?) says that when I’m dead, I should be ALL dead.

Like, if there’s any kind of afterlife, will leaving a functioning part me behind hold up the transition? This even sounds fucked up to me because I’m 100% not religious at all.

I would just prefer all of me to be dead or all of me to be alive. Not fractions of both at the same time.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

Don't think of it as selfish. Your body is one of the few things in this world that is truly, indisputably yours. It's entirely up to you if you're comfortable with donation. If you're not, there's no criticism to be made.

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[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago

Yes I am.

When I die, my organs are no longer of any use to me, but could improve someone else's life. I'm not sentimental about my corpse. I'll donate anything that's still useful. I don't even mind if medical students use my bones to play pranks on each other. Heck, I think I'd prefer that.

[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

Yep. Although I'm pretty sure no one would want them.

[–] Blackout@kbin.run 6 points 7 months ago

Yes because hopefully someone better than me will get them and make a real difference in the world.

[–] rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] LoamImprovement@beehaw.org 4 points 7 months ago

Same, not like I'm gonna need them.

[–] millie@startrek.website 5 points 7 months ago

Only because there's no box on the license application that says "donate body to be chummed and thrown on rich people".

But for real if my vacated body can save someone else's life or make it better by all means get that shit.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yes, though my lifestyle may mean some are no good.

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[–] Drusas@kbin.social 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I am, but I probably shouldn't be. My organs are...not in the best shape.

[–] ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Good news, we have a match for you!

Somewhat good news, your new lungs are little dinged up and have mileage on them.

Bad news, we're still charging you full price for these lungs. Enjoy your medical debt.

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[–] kakes@sh.itjust.works 4 points 7 months ago

Not sure if I'm completely registered, but any time I've been asked I check Yes, and I have it checked on my health card.

Like you said: "why not?" Not like I'll be using them any more at that point.

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