gonna agree with conditioning - we've been indoctrinated (by society) to behave in certain ways - like "men dont cry", etc (they do). people acting in certain ways in certain situations is normal - and expected. we've been programmed to expect it and respond to it.
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I find myself trying to pay attention to how she responds.
@blahsay@lemmy.world is probably right about early conditioning for guys. But it can also change, and a lot of men are fairly vocal.
Dunno about anyone else, but I really don’t feel much besides an emotional connection until the O. My vocal involvement is brief.
Men busy doing the actual work. Ain't nobody got time for that.
y'all have TERRIBLE sex lives lmaoooooooooooo
just communicate with your partner
It's conditioning by porn.
In my experience, if you don't make sounds as a woman during sex, the guy will become insecure, ask what's wrong, straight out demand you make some sounds or even bring out stories about previous sexual encounters with other women.
Also, some men moan. I think it's hot if it's natural and not forced because a man's voice can be a turn-on.