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I am childfree, she wasn't. 100% not going to work, but we ended on good terms all things ocnsidered.
Just wondering what about her having kids was a deal breaker for you?
She didn't have kids already, but she wanted to have them in the future. I absolutely do not want kids, I even got a vasectomy in my early 20s.
It's not really an issue you can compromise on as a couple, so it was better to part amicably than pursue something with no future, for both of our sakes.