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i’m constantly told to give up on my goals. they’re not even unrealistic, i don’t want to be a big, giant unicorn who saves the world or something.

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[–] Yermaw@lemm.ee 17 points 1 day ago (3 children)

What irks me the most about that kind of attitude is the idea that stuff has to make money to be worthwhile. It's perverse. Nobody is allowed personal growth or passions any more, absolutely everything needs to be grinded out as a side hustle.

Tell someone what you do or create in your free time and half the time they'll start asking what your channels for monetisation on that are. Do you sell it on etsy? You making videos on that? Why not try contacting local business and selling that skill? Did you know you could sign up for this signal-boosting ad-share service to maximise engagement so you can easily compare your ROI?

And inside you're dying because "dude, no, i just wanted to try my hand at making a spice rack"

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I have not once had a friend ask me these sorts of questions. You need to make different friends.

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