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~30 year old Lemmings who live in apartments, do you make friends with your neighbours? (lemm.ee)

submitted 2 weeks ago by ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Beyond the polite "Hey, how's it going". Close enough to hang out at each other's apartment, maybe even ask them to water your plants or feed your pet while you're away.

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[–] InquisitiveApathy@lemm.ee 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Nope. Neighbors in apartments change far too frequently for various reasons - life changes, rent hikes, property issues, etc. It very rarely seems worth the time to invest in a potential acquaintanceship. The only people that ever seem to be eager to be friends in my experiences end up being the elderly and the younger folks anyway.

It also makes it far more awkward when you have to eventually have a neighborly conversation and ask them to not leave their trash in the hallway or keep their volume down or something else minor.