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I cringe every time I hear another guy refer to women like this

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[–] Amputret@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (17 children)

I had a woman boss who would always refer to women as female (like “you know the manager of that department is a female?!”). I’m still not sure how I feel about it.

[–] DomeGuy@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (11 children)

I think the best response is always "you don't know that". Sex and Gender are not the same thing, and adults should know by now that they can't tell what's in someone else's pants by looking at their face.

[–] Amputret@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Well I did once explain the difference between sex and gender as she seemed confused and was unable to wrap her head around a colleague using they/them, but that led to a slightly vacant yet patronising expression on her face. Also, call me a coward but I’m not going to clap back at my own goddamn boss, I prefer my working days to not be more of a living hell than they already are. Regardless, she’s retired now.

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