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[-] stoly@lemmy.world 0 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

This is the part I can’t get with all the moral panic. What sort of horrible person are you that you want to force other people to live this way? Isn’t inaction and breaking the cycle of violence and pain a better idea?

[-] Wolf_359@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I actually think life, for all its faults, is a beautiful and amazing opportunity. It's a special blink of existence where we get to witness the unimaginable beauty in our universe.

Perhaps our lives (in the West, at least) have gotten too easy. Not that I want to go back or live a harder life - I don't. But for most of human history, there was a pretty solid chance you were going to live a sick, miserable, religion-filled life as a soldier, slave, or peasant. All the while, you'd have pretty much no control over what happened to you. Even the wealthy and powerful were shitting in holes and sweating in the heat. Today, it costs you about two hours of easy labor to get a bidet and maybe 10 hours of labor to get an air conditioner that will keep you cool for many years. People still found meaning and reasons to keep going through the thousands of years of famine, plague, war, and slavery. They kept seeing something that made them want to have babies and love them.

The world isn't perfect but it's better than it's ever been in most ways. Even if we don't survive climate change and late-stage capitalism, I think the time I've already had with my son has been beautiful and meaningful. I only hope he gets to experience love, satisfaction, simple pleasures, etc. Even just a comfortable nap or the feeling of accomplishment after completing a task. It's all so fragile and temporary. We are the universe experiencing itself and it's really beautiful despite the miserable parts.

[-] Zippit@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago

Talk for yourself. When you're healthy AND lucky, yes life in the the West is maybe easy. But the minute you get disabled, you're being systematically pushed into poverty. And despite saying free healthcare to pester Americans, we all know it's not 'free.'

The latest dentist I called asked me to transfer 400€ before I even got an appointment. So stop pushing this narrative that life's too easy. Maybe for you.

[-] Wolf_359@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I don't really want to play adversity Olympics with you but since you insist.

My parents were on food stamps and going to food pantries when I was a kid. Father was an absent alcoholic and drug addict. I myself struggled with heroin addiction in my teens and 20s and ended up ruining my life - or so I thought.

I managed to climb out of that hole (using Obamacare and the support of my family) to find a whole new perspective on my life.

I was angry, bitter, nihilistic, and selfish. I was obsessed with how bad and unfair the world is, and it gave me every excuse to keep buying bundles and nodding into oblivion.

Once I got clear of the horrible opiate withdrawal and paid back the considerable money I owed - once I stopped wanting to overdose and kill myself - I realized how nice it is to be able to take a walk on a warm day and just check out the birds. I realized a cup of coffee and a sandwich is a blissful experience, especially when shared with a friend or loved one.

When I think about the eternity I will spend in non-existence after I die, I know that I have very limited time to enjoy this strange and beautiful trip I'm on. I know this little blip would be the envy of the non-existent. If ghosts were real, I bet every one of them would kill to come back and just feel the sensations of smell, taste, touch, and sound. Or to look at something pretty.

Like dude, I've had parts of my life that were fucking miserable. Please don't tell me it's so easy. I've just decided to enjoy it and practice gratitude. Whatever happens to me, I remind myself that it's better than going through opiate withdrawal on a plastic cot and wishing I was dead while everyone was disgusted with me.

Life, on average, is much easier now than it's ever been. The wealthiest men alive didn't have access to basic over the counter medicine that we have today. If you die of some horrific disease tomorrow, you've still had a higher quality of life than most of the richest people who have ever lived.

You know why my ramblings about the beauty of life sound so corny? It's because a lot of people have realized it before. Because it's so often said that it sounds cliche. There is a reason so many people have come to these conclusions.

My advice to you is to touch grass. No joke. And if you don't want to touch grass, go watch a movie that makes you feel awe. Go read a book that moves you. Otherwise you're going to have your eyes opened on your death bed and wish you had lived differently. Happens all the time man.

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